couldn't have said it better...

Carrie: The longer I sat at that table, the more alone I felt. And it really hit me: I am 35 and alone.

Miranda: You are not alone.

Carrie: No, I know I have you guys, but...and really, I hate myself a little for saying this, but...it felt really sad not to have a man in my life who cares about me. No special guy to wish me happy birthday. No goddamn soulmate. And I don't even know if I belive in soulmates.

Charlotte: Don't laugh at me, but maybe we could be each others soulmates? And then we could let men be just these great nice guys to have fun with?

Samantha: Well, that sounds like a plan.