.my truisms.

A man can spend every day with you and not make you his girl. He can spend years with you and not make you his wife. Actions are good, but they need to be accompanied by words and commitment.

I think we get so wrapped up in trying to having a good time, we may not see the aversion to commitment. It doesn't develop over time, it's there in the beginning.

The light blinds silly bitches in like. (And yes that silly bitch includes me)

If a man is overtly sexual EARLY on in the beginning stages, chances are he wants sex and nothing else.

Don't interpret a man's desire to sleep with you without a condom as anything more than the fact he likes raw sex.

Remaining true to yourself is mighty hard under the pressure of lust.

If your "relationship" starts off based on sex, chances are it won't go very far beyond that.

If a man can't pursue you, he don't want you. PERIOD.


TRUST YOUR INTIUITION. It is normally always right....